I'm visiting family at the moment as we live hundreds of miles away. My parents have been treating me really badly and I've had to limit contact with them so my brother kindly let me stay with them while we're visiting. His wife is probably the kindest, most considerate person I know and actually purchased new beds for their house to accommodate us. She assures me they were planning to get these anyway but just did it a little sooner for us visiting.
Unfortunately, my brother who is epileptic and recently got his driving licence back, had 3 seizures yesterday, the first one was whilst we were out for his daughters birthday lunch. He never fully came round at the end of that one and proceeded to have 2 more and even by the end of the day, he was still very confused. SIL spent the day in hospital and i took care of our 4 girls while she was away (with a little help from some other family members). My other SIL (we'll call her SIL2) was here and brushed the girls teeth at bedtime whilst I tidied up the bedrooms. We put the girls to bed and then I realised wed forgotten to take them to the toilet after brushing their teeth. SIL2 assured me they had gone to the toilet before their bath which was directly before we put them to bed and that it would be fine. I went along with it but we've just been woken up by my DD (aged 4) as she's wet the bed. SIL didn't have a waterproof sheet down so it went onto her lovely new memory foam mattress. I explained to her that it was my fault and I should have lifted the girls when I realised they hadn't been to the toilet. She assures me it's fine but I'm feeling so guilty about it. I've had so much going on lately with my strained relationship with my parents and with everything that's happened to my lovely brother, it's probably not helping. But I'm lying here awake feeling absolutely ruBBISH. Not sure what I'm hoping to gain by this post but I feel somewhat better for even just writing it down.