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namechange08361548 · 12/08/2018 12:52

...of getting out of a bad mood?

I have always been a bit of a grump and I know that being around grumpy people is no fun for anyone. I also have a short temper but try to use mindfulness to control it (with some degree of success).

Having said that, the mindfulness techniques and recognising that I'm being a grumpy cow don't get me out of my funk.

Can anyone share any tried and tested ways out of a Bad Mood?

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kaytee87 · 12/08/2018 12:53

What are you in a bad mood about?
If it's all the time then you should try the gp.

bellinisurge · 12/08/2018 13:00

A long walk?

namechange08361548 · 12/08/2018 13:01

It's not all the time... definitely worse in the 10 days or so before my period but I have quite short cycles (24 days, give or take) so it feels like half of the time I'm in a mood. It's tiring, and I recognise it's probably tiring for DH and the children as well though most of the time it's them who made me cross

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WooYa · 12/08/2018 13:16

Put some cheesy pop music on Grin the oldest cheesiest music you can find then have dance Glitterball

CorianderSnell · 12/08/2018 13:25

I go for a drive if I can; I find concentrating on the road is soothing

I listen to comforting podcasts (at the moment I especially like Forever35)

I get outside - even just standing in the garden and breathing for a minute can help

I force myself to send friendly messages to friends - I have a habit of completely shutting down communication wise when my mood gets glum - this serves the dual purpose of making me thing of other people’s shit instead of my own and possibly getting nice replies as a surprise at a later moment

I try to be very kind to myself and make my internal chat like that of a nice friend - offer myself a coffee, make sure I do the things I need to do but praise my small efforts etc. This might sound a bit bonkers but it works for me.

If I can gather the energy to start and have the time I do a Yoga With Adriene video on YouTube

ClashCityRocker · 12/08/2018 13:27

Evict everyone from one room of the house with clear instructions you are not to be disturbed.

Get comfy, get a really good book, put some gentle but not depressing music on in the background, a nice cup of tea (or wine) and just take an hour or so for yourself.

namechange08361548 · 12/08/2018 13:31

Thank you all! These are really helpful! I've never tried a podcast, will check that out.

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Margaurette · 12/08/2018 13:35

Go for a swim. You're so cut off from the world when you're in the pool that I find it impossible to be cross while doing it.

YouKnowWhatIMean · 12/08/2018 13:36

Yoga, every time.

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