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house and school move

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RebeccaWithTheGoodHair · 09/08/2018 09:41

Due to STBXH leaving us I've had to sell the family home and find somewhere for me and DD pretty quickly. By a stroke of luck though that has all come together quite well and it looks like we'll be moving in third week of September.

My dilemma is that DD starts middle school this autumn. She has been allocated a place already but when we move we'll fall into a different catchment. The new school is walking distance away whereas I will have to drive her to the original one every day (she now falls out of that catchment so there are no school buses and she's too young - 10 - to travel on the public bus on her own).

However the new school is over-subscribed and the LA are being slow at telling me if she can be allocated a place or not.

So assuming I haven't found out by the start of term do I start her at the original school and just wait to find out when she can transfer or do I home educate until the transfer is set?

Under the new circumstances (now a single parent) I'm going to struggle to buy 2 sets of blazers, ties, sports kit for each school in what could be a short space of time. Plus it is a lot of upheaval for her to have to start at 2 different schools.

I just don't know what the right thing is to do for her. We're not having a good time at the moment so I don't want to cause her any more stress if at all possible.

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AjasLipstick · 09/08/2018 09:46

Start her at the original one yes. How far away is it from your new place?

Have you thought about secondary schools yet?

RebeccaWithTheGoodHair · 09/08/2018 09:49

We don't have a secondary system - first, middle, high where we are. She'll be at this school for 3 years.

Would you really start her there? It's about a 20 min drive away. Not far I know but I work so will disrupt my day as well.

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PatriciaHolm · 09/08/2018 12:52

Problem is you have no idea how long it might take to get a place. If the school is over subscribed, it could be months/years/never before she gets a place. I would start her at the other school, unless you are happy with the idea of home educating indefinitely.....

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AjasLipstick · 09/08/2018 12:55

What country are you in? Would her new school....ie the one she's not got into yet...would that feed into a high school different to the one at her old school?

And Yes...I really would take her to the "old' school because what choice do you have? She has to go to school. Could be months otherwise.

RebeccaWithTheGoodHair · 09/08/2018 13:50

God no to home educating!

In the UK - we're one of the only counties left with the middle school system so it's a bit unusual.

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AjasLipstick · 09/08/2018 13:54

A 20 minute drive isn't excessive.

RebeccaWithTheGoodHair · 09/08/2018 15:39

It's 40 minutes out of my working day! More like an hour with all the faffing at either end with bags, etc.

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cestlavielife · 09/08/2018 15:43

Taxi
Au pair who drives
For the short term....

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