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Should I tell ex’s new girlfriend that he’s on dating sites?

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SecretSam · 19/07/2018 15:45

My ex has started a new relationship, I know this from Facebook stalking and that her Facebook has pictures of them together and states that she is in a relationship, since May this year. His Facebook is not showing these details, I am not friends with either of them.

My Ex is on PoF, very active on there, I was surprised to see him as I thought he was in a relationship.

Anyway, I guessed his password and logged into his account, he has been messaging numerous women and arranging dates.

This new girlfriend seems like a nice person, in a well respected job role.

My ex cheated on me, I know his tricks. I would have liked to have known instead of wasting months of my life wondering why things changed between us and thinking I’d done something wrong.

Should I let the new girlfriend know?

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BoneyBackJefferson · 20/07/2018 18:59

I am interested to know how the OP is going to do this without coming across as a demented stalker ex.

Shortstuff08 · 20/07/2018 20:08

She is going to great a fake profile on Facebook.

But when the girl and the ex put 2 and 2 together and guess it's her, he is just going to say the OP created a fake profile. Given that she is going to have to admit she hacked his account, it's not a stretch for the new girlfriend to believe that she would go that far.

knicksfan · 20/07/2018 20:47

Why are you logging into your exes online dating profile? WHY????????
Why are you watching them both on Facebook?
You sound unhinged.

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runningscare · 20/07/2018 20:59

What have you got to gain from this?! ... the ex is an ex for a reason ...don't get involved.

GlitterGlassEye · 20/07/2018 21:05

I’d want to know, even in the early stages of a new relationship as it gives a head up before too much involvement. She’ll need proof tho or you’ll seem like a trouble maker and take his word.

Hellywelly10 · 20/07/2018 21:07

Op this is not healthy. Please stop. NLP is a really effective at stopping obsessive thoughts and feelings. Go shopping, cinema or anything tomorrow to get you away from their social media accounts.

hiddeneverything · 20/07/2018 21:55

None of your business xx

Whattheactualfuckmate · 20/07/2018 22:05

I’d 100% want to know

pigeondujour · 21/07/2018 04:37

You're bang out of order. Logging into your ex's private accounts is just awful. So violating.

SparklyMagpie · 23/07/2018 08:21

Fucking weird you go to the lengths of hacking tbh

Yeah I'd want to know but I'd be weirded out when it came out his ex hacked into his profiles Hmm

Get a life

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