My anxiety is through the roof right now my head hurts I feel sick I can't eat and I can't sleep I think I've done something terrible but something that I've needed to say.
Basically I have this friend( probably not anymore) she craves attention off men especially one who has money!! She's seeing this guy and I mean he's lovely adores her and her children, last year they had an argument and she really thought he was going to leave her so she went and got the coil out behind his back and has been trying to get pregnant after she realised it wasn't going to happen quickly she told him she was pregnant, (he said to her from the start he didn't want any children of his own but he will be there for her daughters) he did not take the news great at all she even went that step further and faked a pregnancy scan and sent it to him! Anyway she's agreed to get an "abortion" as he said he'll be willing to give it another go with her but slowly as she accused him of assaulting her which it came out that she actually done it to herself. She told him the abortion would cost £3,500 so he's obviously given her the money to which she went out and brought the new iPhone and went clothes shopping for herself all while pretending she was having the abortion! Now a year later she really is pregnant he has no idea she's been trying this whole time!! She said she wanted to wait until she was 5 months to tell him so it was too late to get an abortion I feel completely disgusted with this whole situation and I feel so sorry for him I've cried over this whole drama that he knows nothing about, until today. I told him she was pregnant, he went mental! I know I've completely portrayed my friend and I probably should have just kept out of it but the other side of me thinks I've done the right thing I mean this is someone's life she is completely messing with! She already has 3 children her 1st is living with his dad because she didn't want him the 2nd has only recently gone to live with her dad because she can't cope and the 3rd well her dad doesn't bother with her so she has no choice but to keep her at home, I've obviously spoken to her and said she isn't doing the right thing at all that she should concentrate on the children she has but she's so set in her ways! I know this whole right up is a bit patchy and probably doesn't make any sense I just really need to vent and I really don't have anyone else to talk to have I done the right thing or not I feel so terrible please help me!