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Overheard Sister...

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melse2964 · 14/07/2018 02:34

Hi
So cant sleep... So today I went to my sisters with my DS for a catch up.
But cant believe how backstabbing she was, I went to the bathroom & as I was comming downstairs all I hear is her & her boyfriend slagging me off saying how ‘fat’ I am and making fun, Yes im overweight 2 stone but gradually losing it.
Its just made me feel quite upset & angry..And now im kicking myself coz i didnt say anything.... But i was a little shocked to hear the things she was saying.
Do you think its too late to say anything to her???!!!
thanks

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Monty27 · 14/07/2018 02:39

I wouldn't be brushing that one under the mat any time soon. It's a shame you didn't do it there and then but I guess you were too upset.
FFS. Two faced gits.
You know you are trying you don't deserve negativity. A bit of support may have been better

Monty27 · 14/07/2018 02:40

Don't do anything in anger mind x

octoberfarm · 14/07/2018 02:51

I wouldn't say it's too late at all. You could easily text her and calmly let her know that you overheard their conversation, and that you were really, really hurt. You don't have to say anything else, you can just leave it there and see how she responds. Sorry that happened, must have been horrible

melonscoffer · 14/07/2018 03:01

It is not too late to say something.
They don't seem too bothered what they say about you so why hold back.

Maelstrop · 14/07/2018 20:33

Just don’t go round again. Horrible cow.

Readyfortheschoolhols · 14/07/2018 20:36

Remember that you can lose weight but she will always be a bitch.

NotTakenUsername · 14/07/2018 20:38

I bet she will minimise and make you feel like you are over reacting.

You aren’t.

RachelfromFriends · 14/07/2018 20:58

I'd go AWOL. Then she will start thinking why and realise you've found out what a bitch they both are

Rjandy2014 · 14/07/2018 21:05

That is so sad that your sister would do that to you. Do you consider yourselves close?
I think id want to let her know that i heard. Maybe text and say you dont want to row (unless you do?) But you feel like you need her to know how much she hurt you. You are trying to lose weight and a sister should be supportive.
I have a sister so i know we can be judgey/jealous/nasty occasionally in the moment but i would never laugh at my sisters 'misfortune'. Im not sure what to suggest because it depends what your relationship is like and what outcome you want from this but i think an apology and grovelling is definitely necessary here so let her know you heard so at the very least she feels guilty

frasier · 15/07/2018 10:25

Does your sister have children? Perhaps she’s jealous and wants to knock you down?

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