Hi just need some advice and wondered if you lovely ladies could help me.
In September last year my ex got me pregnant we had a one night stand and then continued to become friends after that with no further sex. I realised I could be pregnant and did multiple tests all negative till one final one came through positive.
He had something very important on that weekend so I didn’t tell him and during the following week had a miscarriage.
He then started seeing someone and I didn’t want to look like I was trying to stop this or look like I was lying so have kept it to myself and 2 close friends.
We have recently started spending time together again but he really upset me this weekend and in a fit of emotion I burst out with it to his best friend.
He’s said I need to tell him I don’t know if I do I don’t think the best friend will ever tell him he has said what’s between us is between us and he doesn’t want to get involved. If I tell him now after he’s upset me is it a bad move do I ever tell him do I let the dust settle and tell him later on. If I tell him now does it look like throwing it in his face. Please help me.