me and three of my friends were having a girly night about 4 months ago, the usual a meal and drinks.
as the night went on my friends started a conversation about sex and orgasms, when they started slating their husbands about how useless they were in bed, that they dont get satisfied and fake it all the time.
as they went deeper into the conversation i was kind of stunned by what they were saying.
as i was basically just sitting saying nothing, it quickly turned to me telling me i could vent aswell that all women were in the same boat and they understood.
when i proceeded to tell my friends that me and my husband who i have been with since i was 19 and he 18, im 35 now and had or first child nearly 2 years ago.we have our ups and downs like all couples but have sex usually twice a week and that i have never faked an orgasm and that i probably have one 90% of the time.
my friends just laughed at me and called me a liar saying it could not be the truth and that its not normal.
since then they just keep sniggering and whispering behind my back i just pretend to not notice.
on the first night i spent with my husband all those years ago he told me never fake it as women should not have to, relax and enjoy yourself if it does not happen it will make him try harder the next time,
faking it gains nothing as it would just make him lazy and then i would lose in the long run.
since that first night he still stands by that and says every couple are the same.
but after my friends reaction towards me i am starting doubt it.
i am even contemplating telling my friends i wasnt totally honest just so they would let it go and stop all the jokes at my expense.
but i really hate the thoughts of being dishonest as it is one of the rules i try to live my life by.
hubby says to ignore it but it is really starting to get to me.
advice greatly appreciated