Myself, hubby and another couple are on holiday ATM, in a place we have been for 14 years in a row (other couple have been twice). Due to this, we both know the area well and know a few bar staff also. I am not a big drinker in any way shape or form, twice a year if that. The past 2 nights when I've been tired I've said my goodbyes and went back to the room. Tonight the other MRS looked surprised when I was going back without hubby, she was exhausted too but was waiting on her MR. I don't see the point in staying out and being miserable if I'm tired, I'm naturally an early bedder. It's now got me thinking, am I wrong to do this? Should I be staying out until my hubby is ready to come home? He's only out an hour or 2 after me as goes and has a drink with the barmen we know. Hubby would come back with me if I asked him to however I don't want to ruin his night as I know he enjoys staying out a bit later. TBH I like coming home and relaxing in a shower knowing I have the place to myself, we are both very independent. I don't generally bother about what people think as what works for some doesn't work for others etc, however it's certainly got me thinking and maybe touched a nerve I didn't know I had