Ok so probably seems a little trivial to some but since having my daughter 18 months ago a few 'friends' have floated off the radar.
Friend A) met my daughter for the first time on 15th June 2017 . . She was born 31st Oct 16!
Friend B) kept in contact she was pregnant at same time due 3 months later, not once has she been to my house it's always me to her, especially when she had her first 2 children. When my first was born it still took me visiting her to see her, back in January 2017 (I attended her wedding, all christenings & birthdays until this year when decided against) also note she's a good friend of A and A is godmother to one of hers
Friend C) pregnant with her first, kept in reasonable contact but is close cousin of friend A. Met with me to meet little one when about 4 months old and is a lovely person but hasn't made much effort since (I attended her wedding)
My dilemma is, we're doing our guest list for our wedding. I feel out of courteousy as I went to their weddings I should invite B & C, but neither would come without A. However A really quite hurt me with the little effort she's made. Especially as she's now pregnant and I got invited to her baby shower recently (by someone else) but I don't feel I can go gush over her when she couldn't be arsed for me.
Do I just leave all 3 out or do I invite? Torn