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About this man in the street

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margaritasbythesea · 14/05/2018 08:52

There´s a homeless man who has recently started living (I believe) in a park opposite my house. I see him frequently as I am going about my day and he knows which block of flats I live in. I don´t really know if he tries to do this with other people, but I did see the police talking to him the other day so I imagine there has been some complaint.

From the start I have been aware of him trying to catch my eye and engage my children and I in conversation. I don´t want to engage with him as he knows where I live and although I am married I am usually alone as DH works away (I will see him next at the end of June).

Today I was in the superarket and noticed that he was. He was very definitely pursuing me, crossing my path etc. I tried to avoid him by going to a different checkout (supermarket has two entrances on opposite sides) but he saw me and joined the queue directly behind me. I didn´t want to leave at the same time as him so I got out my phone and did a few things with my back to him. I could see from the corner of my eye that he was standing waiting for me. I asked the woman on the checkout if she would mind if I went back through the supermarket to the other door, which I did and then legged it home by a different route.

I don´t live in the UK and although fairly fluent in the language I do not really want to get involved in a lengthy process of reporting etc (very bureaucratic country and I am busy!) but will do so but wanted to ask on here what you would do first.

As I see it I can
a) take evasive action when I see him. Don´t want to have to do this really. I should be free to live my life and talk or not talk to who I want.
b) Talk to the police now
c) If he approaches me again tell him that I will call the police if he does so another time.

Or something else?

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Sharonthetotallyinsane · 14/05/2018 08:55

I would call 101 and ask for advice.

Sharonthetotallyinsane · 14/05/2018 08:55

I would nt tell the man in question your intention to report him. You don’t know what his reaction will be.

iklboo · 14/05/2018 08:57

OP doesn't live in the UK - she can't call 101

OhMyGodTheyKilledKenny · 14/05/2018 09:03

I presume there is still a local police station wherever you live? Could you go in and ask for advice. You might find that they have had other complaints or are aware of him doing similar with others.

margaritasbythesea · 14/05/2018 09:06

There is and I think it is probably the best option, really. Bloody annoying. When I feel nervous (as I do in official situations) communicating in the second language is difficult for me. Just have to put my big girl pants on I guess.

OP posts:
margaritasbythesea · 14/05/2018 10:01

Thanks for your replies, as I should have said before.

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