Separated from ex. 15 month old DS. Ex had DS 1 day a week whilst I'm working.
In the last few weeks, every time I collect DS ex tells me something about DS that isn't true. Eg soiled clothes, horrific nappies but with awful inappropriate language etc.
I picked him up today and he said (with the language) that DS had a nappy leak (soiled) but he hasn't changed his clothes as there weren't any in his bag (that I provide - and that's not true there was)
Anyway when I got DS home after an extremely uncomfortable car ride (approx 10 mins) I go to change him to find he is red raw and his vest and shorts are absolutely disgusting. He was screaming when I was trying to clean him. Think new wee and poo on top of old.
I've confronted him and he just said he didn't realise the newest additions. He claims to love DS and wanna spend time with him and see him etc but sounds utterly disgusted and put out when he tells me he's had to deal with nappies and other normal baby activities.
Anything I can do/what would you do?? I have taken pics on my phone of a few incidents. This has been every week for 4/5 weeks now. Thank you