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He treats me like an employee

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Brummom · 19/04/2018 22:11

Hi,

So I really need some help. Me and my partner have 2 amazing DS. After Ds2 was born I went back to work but quickly decided I hated being away from the children and the cost of childcare ment there was little point anyway. DH agreed it would be best if I stay home. Since he has started paying all the bills (I still pay for food and Any thing the children need) he has begun to lose respect for me he only sees me as a maid, a cleaner or a babysitter. I'm not allowed any time for my self and if I stay in bed past 7am i get called lazy. Even when I'm I'll he still expects me to "just get on with it" which I always do but it's the point he doesn't value me as a individual, he only values what I can do. He doesn't talk to me so we can't discuss it and I'm really worried about the impression it's giving my boys that is ok to dis respect mommy. I can't leave as I have no where to go and no money what should I do?

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ClemDanfango · 19/04/2018 22:17

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Laz33ydayz · 20/04/2018 09:46

If you are not married go back to work and secure your future. He can pay half the child care

Blaablaablaa · 24/04/2018 18:50

Maybe start treating him like an employer and charge him for all the hours you do

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AssassinatedBeauty · 24/04/2018 18:53

How do you pay for all the food and all the things the children need? Just from child benefit?

I agree you need to go back to work and become as independent as possible, then leave him.

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