I need a strategy to avoid being kissed by someone I meet in a professional capacity. The first time we met I expected to shake hands but he kissed me on the cheek. I was a bit shocked but let it happen - it made me feel uncomfortable. At our second meeting he went for it again and again I didn't know how to stop it as I didn't want to appear rude (!!!). My husband was with me both times. I have now said to DH that I don't want to deal with this person anymore and he totally understands why. He trusts my intuition and hasn't questioned me at all.
I am hoping not to see this man again but i realise I am a 40 something who has allowed an over familiar person to make me feel very uncomfortable just because I (yes me!!) don't want to seem RUDE!! What do I do in future if this ever happens again - I guess I have to give myself permission to be rude because some twat doesn't understand boundaries!!!