Hi all, this is my first post here. But certainly not my first time coming here looking for advice or friendly chat :)
I'm wondering if anyone has experienced a similar situation to mine and had any advice.
My partner and his wife separated 3 years ago. It was a bad breakup from what I know and she was against the split. They had tried to make their marriage work for a couple of years prior to this and it seemed unmendable.
He left in 2015. We met and got together a about a year later in early 2016. They signed their divorce around this time, but nothing was agreed in terms of custody (their child is now 8) and/or financial. My partner has continued to pay for their previous marital home, all bills and all expenses for their child. And he sees them regularly and is a very loving and present father.
I found out I am pregnant in January and am now 15+3 
we are so so happy and excited!
I am not allowed to be a part of their sons life and she continually calls me on my personal and work phone, leaving me messages (I do not engage in any conversation) and this is without her knowing that I am expecting. Just knowing of my existence. I am close to calling the police to report this as harassment and this is dragging out even further her resistance to agree to any financial agreement. She feels she deserves everything. What he is proposing keeps her and their child in the house so no upheaval, but still have a share in the house. She won't budge and think she's holding out for him to cave in and walk away with nothing. Which I don't feel is fair.
Has anyone had any problem like this? Or simply have an opinion/advice? I'd love to hear from you. Thanks x