Apologies this be a long one .
A relatives ex who has a DS in junior school could possibly be taking drugs.
An few incidents have happened and the DS explained that his mum's BF had a plate with white powder on and a knife and when he came down and asked what it was his mum shoved him out the way and said nothing. They locked him out of their living room but he got in some how and relative DS found them slumped on the floor. So he managed to get out of his house and go to a relatives house and they got in touch with the DS dad and he rang the SS.
And said till the situation is resolved then he has to stay with his dad. All was good the mother had got her own house and was suppose to have NC with her BF.
We have found out that they are back together and now things have gone to how they were.
She is failing to pick her DS from school and telling her DS to wait for her and not go and wait in school because it would give her a bad reputation. After the last time she didn't pick him up she blocked all forms of contact with the dad. And yesterday she didn't turn up to pick him up from school again and the head teacher brought my relatives DS son to a relatives close by. He had been waiting be picked up from school for an hour and these are her days for having him. No one could contact her again and she doesn't even ring to see how her DS is or where he is.
I know she might not be doing drugs when her DS is in her care but it seems she is fully out of it on the pick up days she can't even function to pick her child up. I don't know of its drugs or alcohol but something is wrong some where.
I'm not sure if she has been investigated on drugs etc but was just told that she could have her son back to live with once the situation was resolved but now it's gone to how it was before
There is more to this story and stuff but too long to go into.
I was just wondering if drugs were a suspicion from the other parent. How come the SS hasn't looked into it more.
I'm just scared something is going to happen to my relatives DS. And his life at the moment isn't good when he is with her. He is only 10yrs 10 months older than my son. I couldn't imagine doing it to any of my children. She knows no one can contact her and has admitted in the past she does it all on purpose.
It's probably none of my business and I probably can't change anything but if there is something I can do , What is it?