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Feeling mixed up

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Mini1977 · 10/03/2018 18:17

Okay so I've suffered from depression and anxiety since I was around 13 due to something which happened when I was younger! I've always been really independent and always know what I want in life. I've been with my OH for 7 years and we have a beautiful little girl who means the world to me. Recently something happened and I've lost contact with both my parents and extended family so all I have is my OH and my daughter which is fine! I don't have much friends and the friends I have don't contact me on a daily basis or invite me out etc which again is fine as with working 5 days a week and family life I'm not really wanting to go out on my days off i would rather catch up on the washing etc. My OH said to me today that he was struggling to get me something for mothers day as he's hardly been working and I said "don't be daft a card and the house dutys being taken away from me for a day will be good enough" I'm not one for expecting the world! My OH went in a mood earlier over something silly and went off to the pub, this might sound bratty but if he can afford a night at the pub then he could've afforded a present? I'm now at home with our daughter not knowing when he will be back and I just feel so depressed! I literally have no one other than my OH and daughter that I properly communicate with and I don't know what to do my head is all over the place!! My OH suffers from a mood disorder so anything tiny tips him over the edge.

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brewsandbooks · 11/03/2018 23:55

Aw what a horrible time you are having. I understand your feeling if if he can go out he can a small gift, I would feel upset to!

In regards to not seeing your friends much could you maybe fine time one evening a week or fortnight to see friends? I feel like everyone needs someone to turn to now and again!

Is there s chance things will get better with your family ? Sounds like you need more support ?

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