Friend woes

[meme70]

I posted the other day my ‘friend’ I’ve had 46 years only wants to meet up when she wants to

Well this week she asked me to meet up again when she wanted so I said ok twice

Then I asked her to go to an event with me she likes and a meal out with her and her husband and my husband

Sadly she’s refused to go to where I asked her to so I think it’s tome to lose the ‘friend’

How do you distance yourself from a friend that can’t aewm to even see she isn’t a proper friend
Do I simply make excuses until she gets the hint or do I ignore her ?

What are her reasons for not going to your events? Just use those reasons, on her. Or ghost her. Either one is appropriate.

Well we were going for a meal and drink her her husband me my husband and her husbands apparently stressy spending money
She said she really wanted to go
But then went out and spent £60 on 2 steak dinners so used that as an excuse not to go out with us as money they are well off no mortgage lots money in the bank

Then there was an event in she said she loved it wanted to go again last year
I saw it was in and said she’ll we go she was like oh no don’t like it ?

What’s ghosting ?

Thanks

Ghosting a friend means completely cutting them from your life without explanation or heads up. If you do it, make sure it's warranted.