Basically my friends boyfriend invited me to join her on a surprise overnight spa break he booked her for her birthday.
I agreed as I thought it would be lovely, thinking about it later I realised it really isn't my friends kind of thing, she isn't a very touchy feely kind of person, she's quite hard to please and I realised It might be abit awkward as I don't think she'll enjoy it, and we will both be stuck there over her birthday.
Anyway I haven't said anything because it really isn't my place, he's a lovely guy and just wants to do something nice for her.
Today I was with her and she said 'I think BF has booked a spa break for my birthday' I said 'oh, why do you think that?' She gave a reason, something that her sister hinted at. She then went on to say that she really wouldn't like that as she doesn't like being touched, and how she would have to act happy but would really be abit disappointed.
To be fair they've been together longer than I've known her and I know that it isn't really her idea of a good time, he should definitely know this.
What do I do!? Do I tell him she knows? Do I also mention she really isn't keen? I feel like it really isn't my place to say. We aren't BEST friends, but we are good friends and I do know her quite well, we work together so spend 10 hours a day together. How awkward when I turn up to pick her up, knowing she doesn't want to be there and then have to spend 2 days there. I also think she will be presuming it will be for him and her, not with me!
Should I not say anything and when we get there, we can just drink? 🍷
A spa break is right up my street, especially a free one!