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Weety100 · 29/01/2018 04:46

What would you Do? He has female friends which is fine. But since Xmas something not right he's admitted deleting messages from her. After that was honest and told me every time she text but it was getting every day and I couldn't take it. He said he woukd stop contact for a while till we sorted our relationship out . Now today I've found a strange man's number in his phone calls of 3 times a day to this 'friend ' He constantly lies. He doesn't seem to see the problem I have with his talking to her. And its all my fault he lies becausebof how i react . But surly this isn't normal if you are in a relationship and just had a baby together. I can't take anymore lies. Help

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TournesolsetLavande · 29/01/2018 05:01

So did he admit that the strange man's number was the same woman?
Do you know who the woman is?

It's not looking good I'm afraid and he's trying to take you for a fool. The worst thing about this is that he knows you know what he's up to yet he obviously feels no shame and is trying to make it all your fault. He clearly feels no guilt at a time when you are very vulnerable. That's unforgiveable.

I think what you should do is leave him, but I know that's not always easy when you've just had a baby and desperately want everything to be alright. I have a feeling that he is going to keep cheating on you because you are making it too easy for him.

Weety100 · 29/01/2018 05:35

I searched her number on fb and her profile came up, I know of her only because they are 'good friends '

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Weety100 · 29/01/2018 05:38

That number even

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