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What would you Do? He has female friends which is fine. But since Xmas something not right he's admitted deleting messages from her. After that was honest and told me every time she text but it was getting every day and I couldn't take it. He said he woukd stop contact for a while till we sorted our relationship out . Now today I've found a strange man's number in his phone calls of 3 times a day to this 'friend ' He constantly lies. He doesn't seem to see the problem I have with his talking to her. And its all my fault he lies becausebof how i react . But surly this isn't normal if you are in a relationship and just had a baby together. I can't take anymore lies. Help

and its all my fault he lies because of how I react
It is not your fault that your partner is a liar.
You meed to confront him about this.
I would also call her and ask what is going on why is she constantly contacting your partner.
Tbe sooner you get to the bottom of this the better.

You do not make him lie. That is his choice. You could contact her,but she isn't the problem, his behaviour is the issue

It's not a bad plan to contact her because he's presumably lying to her too. Difficult to write a message where you don't end up with egg on your face though.

And do you really want to be with a liar? Cod the new baby bit is followed by the toddler bit and they are all hard enough with out doubting your partner at every turn.

I have messaged her and they both say nothing is going on, I do actually believe them. They have been friends like 15 years . But I just don't get why he calls her that often every day. He said it's just chit chat , bit of normality. But to me it hurts a lot.

Can you not appeal to her as as a woman and tell her it hurts you. That you have a new baby etc etc and the continuous calls are over the top.
Ask him, who is more important you and the baby or his friend.