Have I lost my libido ?

[early20s]

Hey wonder if anyone can relate..

I'm 20 and living with my long term partner. We have always had a brilliant sex life. Sometimes sex 2-3 times a day? I've never been an overly confident woman in my skin but I was comfortable and happy which is the main thing.

Then come mid last year I fell pregnant and miscarried twice in the space of 4 months. Ever since that first miscarriage I have completely lost my sex drive and it's starting to have a major affect on my relationship.

My partner has high sex drive so as you can imagine it's not great when I'm not interested in the slightest. I explained I still find him sexually attracted, he's the love of my life! But I literally am not phased about sex what so ever and I really don't know why, it isn't like me at all

I thought it would come back naturally but I had my second miscarriage end October/November 2017. Still nothing

My relationship is falling apart when I don't want it too. Is this normal? Is there anything I can do to get it back? Surely I'm too young to just have no sex drive at all :(

Yes you've lost your libido. Can you have a chat with your GP? Could be a hormone thing after the two MC's maybe?

Yes I've thought about booking in with my GP. I'm hoping they don't just brush it under the carpet and say it will come back when it's ready etc because I'm young ish still when it's been a problem for months :(

Do you fancy your OH?

I thought I had a non existent libido until I started dating other men (after I had left ex obvs) and I've got quite the appetite now.

And also, you've had a very recent miscarriage, give yourself time to heal mentally first.

Yes I definitely still fancy him. It's breaking me watching our relationship fall apart. I'm going to ring the doctors, I hope they take me seriously and don't palm me off because of my age 🙄