After bit of advise as I think I’m going bit mad! My husband & I were very close to another couple about 7/8 years ago, they split up and we lost touch with her, she went on to marry and have children anyway fast forward 8 years and my husband bumped into her brother whilst out and for some reason got her number which isn’t an issue as we were all very close & she has known my husband since childhood. He mentioned to me that he had her number and should we get in touch again, I said yes why not. He said he had text her and she had replied (that was about 6/8 weeks ago) he hasn’t mentioned it since and when I’ve asked about whether he’s been in touch with her he’s very aloof and dismissive so I asked for her number to get in touch and he said he’d deleted it by mistake. I didn’t really believe him so I tried to look at his phone but he’s changed his password and has suddenly become very protective of it. I know he used to really fancy this woman as he told me that he used to years ago & when we used to be close with her he often made comments that she was way too good for her then boyfriend who is a close friend of my husband. Maybe I’m being silly but something isn’t right but I don’t know what to do to find out more info without getting into his phone.