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How do I deal with this?!

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Katytdm · 06/01/2018 09:33

I’m looking for advice on what to do about a sensitive situation. My sister’s husband’s brother in law, age 38 has been connected to my niece, 22 on Snapchat. I don’t know much about how it works but he was on there under a name different to his own and has been watching her snaps. We know this as my sister’s husbands’ sister sent a photo taken from a video my niece had put on there. The video was taken while she was driving and was sent ostensibly to alert my sister of what my niece was doing. Fine, she has been dealt with about the video and the risks of using her phone whilst driving. However, it has raised an issue in that my niece did not know who this man was. When he photographed her video she received a notification and so messaged him to ask who he was and why he was taking stills of her snaps. His response was that his phone was broken and keeps taking shots on insta and Snapchat. Up until this point she didn’t realise he’d taken shots of her insta as well (he follows her on both).
I am now very worried about this man as my sister has other younger children. Is it right that he was watching all my neice’s snaps at his age? She barely knows this man as my sisters husband is not her real dad, and she doesn’t see much of that side of the family. I have also been told that this man was dismissed from the police.
So, what to do to investigate this guy to try and ensure the safety of my nephews and neices?

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