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Do I wait for neighbour to collect parcel or drop it round to them?

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VioletBow · 13/12/2017 23:40

I often take in parcels for 3 of my neighbours opposite myself and the next terraced house to me (my dm, I'm end of terrace).
Then will often drop them over to the neighbour when I can see they are home later that day or the next.

The neighbour I have taken parcels in for this evening is my next door neighbour the opposite side to my dm and we have 3 garages between us, so I can't see if they are home without walking to their house.

I have taken in parcels for them twice before in the past and the first I had just moved in and the delivery driver had a small box with him so though ok what's the harm, good way to meet said neighbour, until after I agreed he went down to his van and pulled out 5 large heavy boxes which had labels saying Garden table, chairs and a trellis.

I ended up knocking at their door for over a week before they answered (car in drive, lights on, dogs barking each time) and left a couple of notes saying I had their parcels. Eventually they answered and got a bit huffy when I asked them to collect the heavier boxes even with my dd who was 18months at the time in my arms.

Second time was again me knocking for days until they answered.

I'm a sahm doing an OU course so I'm home most of the time so I can't see that they have even tried in the past to collect their parcels or have only knocked while I have been out.

So before I ramble on any further I'm thinking I'm not going to bother knocking for days on end until they answer but let them come and get it themselves. I know they have a note to say where they are as the driver often delivers my own parcels and have never had problems.
And I'm kicking myself for saying I would take them in!

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RedastheRose · 14/12/2017 00:27

Sorry but they are being rude and you should just stop accepting their parcels. They are not being good neighbours leaving you with boxes and getting pissy when you ask them to collect them so why should you shoulder the responsibility for being a good neighbour to help them out. Just refuse to take anything else in for them when the driver tries to deliver it to you and play dumb if they ask you why.

RavenLG · 14/12/2017 00:33

Stop accepting thier parcels and, if it’s not cluttering up your hallways leave it until they come knocking. They sound rude

tampinfuminragin · 14/12/2017 00:35

Say no next time the driver wants to drop it off.

TroysMammy · 16/12/2017 18:33

I always go over to my neighbours to get my parcels. I give them a gift at Christmas as a thank you.

jemmstar1980 · 17/12/2017 14:05

Leave a note saying can you come collect parcels by end of x day if not I’ll need to leave them on your door step - and don’t take in anymore.

I agree if I neighbor is kind enough to take in your parcel (and your haven’t asked them not to) you should collect it immediately.

Wishfulmakeupping · 17/12/2017 14:09

Stop taking them in op you're being too kind.
I'm a sahm and the delivery driver always comes to me but I will only take in for some now as one neighbour who is a rude pisstaker left her 3 massive boxes here 3 fecking days before sending her 11 year old son down to collect them without a thank you won't help her out again.
They should always collect and quickly imo

ferriswheel · 17/12/2017 21:50

Definitely stop taking the parcels in. So rude of them.

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