I come from a fairly large family - a few siblings and numerous DNieces and DNephews of various ages. As the DNs have grown up for the most part I have stopped buying them Christmas/birthday presents however there is one grown up DN that I see fairly regularly and have a hobby in common with. We get on well and so I buy her and the younger DNs presents at Christmas. Last year an email was sent to the whole family just before Christmas by DSis asking if the presents for her DCs (ages 29 and 27) had been mixed up with anyone elses as she couldn't find them with her present that had been forwarded on to her. Completely ignoring the fact that a) they are grown adults b) they have chosen to distance themselves from me, blocking me on social media and never contacting me and c) that the present for her and her DH was much larger than other siblings to make up for the fact that I wasn't buying for the DCs.
So this year - do I find completely passive aggressive presents for all of them, give them no presents at all or just send a voucher? If you can suggest PA presents that would be even better, thanks!