I feel like I know the answer really but it'll ask.
And try to keep it brief.
Years ago was seeing a bloke that I really liked, it came to an end.
A year later I got together with the father of my children, not long after giving birth OH went to social event and was jumped. Was left in quite a bad way. Left hospital the next day, had a day off work to recover a bit and went back the day after feeling like shit kinda thing. No broken bones, just cuts and bruises.
Never 100% knew who it was but people at the event had mentioned (the bloke I was seeing years ago) acting suspiciously before, even much so after and then disappearing after. Everything pointed to him.
We told the police what we knew, obviously no concrete evidence so nothing ever happened about it.
I'm one to majorly hold grudges and if someone fucks me over then that's it!
Me and OH are no longer together (on bad terms) and this bloke has reached out to me.
LET ME MAKE CLEAR I HAVE NO INTENTION OF REKINDLING ANYTHING WITH THIS MAN AT ALL EVER!!!!!
But should I tell him to do one because of what he may have done or do I accept his reaching out and go back to being on good terms with him