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I've had enough of new neighbours bullying me

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Maskoff · 17/09/2017 17:01

These two women have moved in downstairs and ever since they have been nasty to me.
I said hello from my window when one of them were sitting in the garden and she said nothing to me and turned her back to me. Someone else who she was with spoke to me and said hi ect

Everytime I see them they ignore me or if they are together they will laugh

One time a couple weeks ago bits from my plant were going into her garden. I had no idea so when I opened the window she has obviously seen the stuff fall on the floor pass her window
She has then come out screaming up at my window telling me t0 use a bin
I asked her what her problem was because I don't understand why she is so angry at me
I even asked her if she was racist because I was so confused what I actually did to her and she came back asking me if I was homophobic
If I was homophobic would I try to even talk to them?
It's like she was making up anything she then let off that she has problems in her last flat and she didn't want problems
She accused me of being nosey although I have carpet underlay and wear slippers

I don't think she is use to living with someone above her. There is 0 sound proofing I can hear my neighbour upstairs to

Ever since this conversation they have carried on with their laughing ignoring and playing loud music in the morning

I don't understand what their problem is with me.

I even wrote her a note before her screaming at me because it was clear she was slamming doors and playing music to annoy me it was like at 7 am
In the note I said I dunno what I done to upset them but they can talk to me
I also addressed their dog barking and weed smoking, I never said it cause I have an issue it's because I was trying to point out they are not completely silent

I have had a horrible day today and her blaring her tv and banging on the wall has got to me, I did start stomping around and played my tv loud because I have just had enough I have so much I'm going through I don't need this shit when I get home

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Lj8893 · 17/09/2017 18:20

It sounds like you are both as bad as each other. You have pointed out some of thier nuisance behaviour and they have defended themselves by pointing out some of your nuisance behaviour. It's just tit for tat stuff really, certainly wouldn't call it bullying.

PerfumeIsAMessage · 17/09/2017 18:23

You both sound like neighbours from hell tbh.

Maskoff · 17/09/2017 22:02

I'm a neighbour from he'll because I retaliated once after having their purpose noise for 3 months
Right okay

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Flywheel · 17/09/2017 22:06

Not surprised you snapped after being treated like shit for so long. I think I would just do my best to ignore them and hopefully they will tire of silly games. Any serious issues complain through formal channels.

MadMags · 17/09/2017 22:08

How weird that your immediate assumption was racism.

Fluffysparks · 17/09/2017 22:22

Tbh although she clearly initiated it, you seem to be coping badly OP. You both sound quite bad... Why don't you try apologising to her? Annoying, I know, but sometimes the best way to deal with these situations Wink

Maskoff · 18/09/2017 10:53

Mag it's not weird. If you say hello to new neighbour and she turns her back on you after looking at you and doesn't say nothing then after trying to be nice makes constant noise which is on purpose one will assume its to do witj the way i look.

You probably haven't had to deal with racism so you have no idea

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Maskoff · 18/09/2017 10:54

Fluffy I have twice now for literally nothing but living here.

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MadMags · 18/09/2017 11:39

I've been in a pretty much identical situation to you. I'm white so it couldn't have been racism. I just assumed they didn't like me (or anyone) and that they were utter cocks.

They moved after a year, thank fuck.

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