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Giving up career for a bit

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nigelsbigface · 04/09/2017 12:23

I've been working in the same level managerial job for 15 years now-social care type role-and for the last two years the paperwork/legislative hoops required have increased so much that the role has begun to be unbearable. I still like the support and care side of it-it's the management part I hate. Additionally this last two years have been pretty rough personally-my divorce should come through this week and the dc's and I have just moved house etc....I just feel...tired...and like I need a change. The thought of gong to work every morning doing this current job is really getting me down. Everything else is going well-finally-(touch wood) but work is just horrible.

I'm at a point where I could afford not to work at the Salary level I'm at now-although this is in some part due to maintenance paid by exh (all done via legal routes) we'd be considerably worse off but still ok-I could afford all the stuff we do now, kids clubs, and all Bills etc but we'd have less left over for things like big holidays and emergencies.I could retrain potentially, and maybe around that do some part time front line support work (the parts of the job I still like) which would bring in a bit of extra cash. So I think we'd manage and the benefits would be worth the less fun money we'd have for a while.

But would it be mad to give up a good salary and the security that brings, (and be reliant on maintenance payments temporarily until I've re trained-and potentially harm my career prospects if I chose to return to this field?

I'm 37 if that makes any difference, two kids 10 and 11...

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Mrsdarcyiwish10 · 06/09/2017 13:31

Having read your story on onits thread, I think you should definately give yourself a break if that's what you need.

Your only problem maybe if your exh loses his job or your Mainenance payment go down for any reason but if you can weather that I would go for it.

nigelsbigface · 07/09/2017 10:06

Thanks Mrsd...
I've registered for the course this week as a start anyway....now just have to take the plunge and resign from my job...

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nigelsbigface · 07/09/2017 10:07

The course for the thing I want to retrain in I mean...

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Timeforabiscuit · 07/09/2017 10:11

Would a sabbatical be an option?

If you need a break, you need a break -recharge your batteries, ive seen so much burnout in the social care sector and if you dont prioritise your well being your employer sure as shit won't!

Dont get me wrong, local authorities (if thats what you're with) are good employers, but the job... there just arent words after the care act, it has changed beyond recognition.

nigelsbigface · 07/09/2017 11:10

No chance of sabbatical no...but I guess they always needs managers because as you say, high turn over due to burn out-so I guess I could always go back to it later if I needed to...I think retraining is a valid reason for a gap in employment history-hope so anyway?

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