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Absolutely lost what do I do ???

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Armychef30 · 02/08/2017 00:59

Please bear with me and be gentle so up until 18 months ago I was married to my partner of ten years with 4 children had a job I absolutely adored me and my male boss were best mates pretty much over night that changed I had a heart attack my husband did not support me as in I had to beg him to call an ambulance he didn't support me afterwards I asked him to leave 4 weeks later by this point my boss and I no mistaking it I had fallen in love with him and he me however his wife and also his best friend found out we all end up spending a weekend together and havirg sex this has developed surprisingly into a loving full on relationship between the 3 of us and our 7 children are all very supportive 3 days before Christmas both of my partners are arrested a disgruntled employee had madecided some serious allegations for which they are still being investigated now they didn't I can say wholeheartedly steal anything which is why I back them all the way they lost their business I lost my job they lost their home life has been shit and we have had one curveball after another flung at us and I've been in hospital regularly quite poorly too where they have juggled the kids the house and their new jobs the rumour mill has been terrible in our small town and people are talking of taking them and actually hurting them we can't go in the town centre I have a genuine fear of someone coming to the house whilst my kids are here we aren't bad people we've never got on the wrong side of the law we are moving Thursday far enough away but I'm scared so scared I can see it all when we first moved in the work me and my husband did the good times the bad the sad all of it it breaks my heart to leave I love both of my partners very much I'm just scared I guess I saw the kids all growing up and leaving home from this house what if it all goes wrong ??

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DesperatelySeekingSushi · 02/08/2017 01:09

You could start with punctuation and paragraphs pet.
If I understood that stream of consciousness, you are moving on Thursday with a couple you are in a polygamous relationship with, due to bullying from local residents.
You have cold feet because you thought all seven children would grow up in that house with the three of you.
This has all happened in the last year and a half.
What do you do?
You pack. You have 48 hours. I'd start now if I were you.

pieceofpurplesky · 02/08/2017 02:02

Which two are you in the relationship with? I can't work it out

Evangeline3 · 02/08/2017 02:44

This has to be a joke.

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Armychef30 · 02/08/2017 02:51

As I said please be gentle no absolutely no joke and grammar is the least of my worries to be fair I have packed and the bullying is not due to our situation in fact our close friends have been extremely supportive 5 of the kids have left home so only the youngest two are left. We are being targeted due to the allegations of the investigation and I just wanted a little reassurance not a flaming

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Evangeline3 · 02/08/2017 03:23

Well, if you don't punctuate properly I can't understand to advise. Not having a go, but grammar exists for a reason.
You're planning to leave but you're worried about what?

DesperatelySeekingSushi · 02/08/2017 15:16

Okay. Will engage. It was 1am and I was grumpy due to insomnia, sorry.
Hope you get better soon health wise.
New home, new start. Hopefully a new job for you Shamrock
Whatever the repercussions of any alleged theft/fraud presumably by the people who were stolen from/defrauded, time will tell in terms of evidence against your partners and if justice will be served.
Renegade threats/revenge/taking justice into own hands never okay. Make sure you have all threats logged, keep off social media, make sure you are not on the public electoral roll.
Hope everything goes okay tomorrow and you settle in to your new home.

Anecdoche · 04/08/2017 14:25

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