Me and dd dad split last year for 6 months, over silly arguments, I was shocked and lost when he went, I stupidly kept asking for him to come back, which he put off a lot! Until we ended up getting back together (looking back I kick myself about how I'd ask for him back)
We've been back together for a while now, but a few months ago I found out 2 days after we split up he was already on tinder! When I told him I knew, he lied until I gave him proof I knew. I'll never know if he met anyone of there.
When I got pregnant with dd it was very early into the relationship so even though we were together we were sort of thrown together into being parents and moving into together.
Now it's coming up about having another baby, I would like one but there is just this niggling feeling where I don't know if am doing the right thing? I don't know if it's just a situation where you just have to do it.
But I don't know if it's how he was when we split that bothers me, I don't know if I should be with him and have a baby or finish things. I understand we weren't together but it was a shock to me he could do it and how through those 6 months led me on about getting back together!
What would you do?