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Old lady in the village

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PsychoPumpkin · 10/07/2017 14:26

First post. I was on my way to my Daughter's sports day this afternoon but not long after leaving the house I was stopped by an old lady asking if I knew where she lived.

I asked if she had any ID on her that would have her address but all she could tell me was her name so I took her to the local shop and asked the shop keeper if he knew where the lady lived and he did, so I took her home, all the while she was crying about being a 'silly old fool'. She'd left to go and buy food for her dog & she was worried about him.

When we got her home her (obviously very well loved) dog bounded up & I knew I'd got her where she needed to be, but didn't know what more do to for her so left my name, address & number & she asked me to look around for anything 'dangerous'. There didn't seem to be any dangers in her home & her kitchen had plenty of dog food & the fridge was stocked (I didn't open it, she was just opening cupboard & fridge doors putting her shopping away)

She said she had a son who 'pops in' but didn't know where he lived & i worry she's all alone & needs at the minimum some in home support.

My husband things I should call social services, what would you do?

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PsychoPumpkin · 10/07/2017 16:12

It is a small village, just a few hundred live here which is why I thought the shop keeper would know who she was, apparently she's lost her way several times. He did seem to think her son was local, so I might try to get the sons address and knock on or post a note through his door.

If I fail to get hold of the son I will definitely phone SS.

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strikealight · 10/07/2017 16:14

I agree that son may have just left half an hour before after a regular visit. Sadly dementia does that to a person's recollection abilities- particularly short term stuff.

Redglitter · 10/07/2017 17:37

It might also be worth calling 101 to see if she's known to them. For most of our regular dementia callers there'll be a family members contact details on a previous incident or details of a care package they're getting

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