Background info:
My MIL and I do not get along. I was always very polite when around her until we fell pregnant. She accused me of trapping him when we were already together and very happy! She refused to congratulate us and was not supportive at all. This obviously upset me and I became less tolerant.
I had HG when I was pregnant and was very poorly.
We had met up when I was around 20 weeks and decided to put everything behind us and move on.
As time went on she was constantly on my back and would criticise me over little things...such as buying a bumbo when she believed they were not safe.
I became more stressed which made my HG worse so eventually decided not to see her until after baby was born.
My husband had met her twice without me to figure what her problem was and both times it didn't end well.
So I agreed one last time to meet together to iron out problems. Again didn't go well as my step FIL lost the plot and blamed my husband for everything. It was very heated and we didn't see them again.
We got married 3 months later and they didn't come to the wedding.
Fast forward 2 years and my husband is feeling very angry still. He says all he feels is anger and is never happy anymore. It's putting a real strain on our family life and relationship.
I think he still feels hurt becuase he hasn't dealt with his emotions.
I think he finds it hard to talk to me about it as I'm essentially the cause.
How can I help him improve his mood and deal with his emotions!?