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I'm scared

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Jolanta0000 · 27/06/2017 21:16

Hi there. It's a long shot but I'll try to make it shorter. Basically I found my self in a situation when I'm scared to leave the house. Around a month and a half ago my abusive ex ended up in prison, court was giving him chance after a chance, and the last drop was when he texted me that it's really easy for him to get a bottle of acid and make sure that no one ever will look at me without a disgust.( he's been beating me up before and once even hurt our daughter) He's been sentenced for 3 months.And, I have a brother who lately became a drug addict and is stealing bikes, phones and other stuff just to buy some crack. Random people are coming to my workplace, meeting me on the street and shouting that they want the stuff back. As I said, I have a 1,5 yr old daughter and I'm panicking. Ex is coming out of prison soon and I'm scared of revenge. I can't even get a pepper spray or ANYTHING to protect myself and my little one. I can't move from the town, I've got my only support here - my mum and a few friends. What can i do about all this? What would you do?

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OrlandaFuriosa · 27/06/2017 21:17

Women's Refuge.

Jolanta0000 · 27/06/2017 21:29

It is miles away, very far away from the town I live in now. And it seems unfair, that, when I haven't done anything wrong, I need to make such a huge changes

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PotteringAlong · 27/06/2017 21:31

I would move. Because yes, it is massively unfair that you has to make the changes, but the alternative for both you and your daughter is unthinkable.

JeffVadersMum · 27/06/2017 21:34

Yes it's totally shit that you should move, but don't stay where.you are because it's not fair that you move and then end up injured or worse

I get that it's not fucking fair and be angry about it, but ultimately look after you and your dc

Flowers & best of luck x

AdoraBell · 27/06/2017 21:49

Agree, you need to move and a refuge is your best bet. If you have a smart phone get rid of it. Many people use the phones to track/stalk their victims. Report it lost and get the number blocked, then get a new number and handset.

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