Hi everyone,
Thanks for taking the time to read.
I'm trying to arrange my wedding but I'm worried as there's a lot of family members that I don't want there but I know they'll be expecting an invite.
A lot of these family's members I haven't seen in over a year due to family history not being great, a lot of drama over the years, they don't get along with the other half of my family etc.
After I had my little boy I stopped make any effort with them anymore because I don't really want to involve them in his life
They haven't bothered to contact me or try to arrange to see him anyway since then..
The problem is a lot of them are immediate family and include my father but he's not a very nice person and he would make me feel uncomfortable on the day.
He didn't bother with me or my siblings growing up and has been not very pleasant since..
I know it seems simple just not to invite them in just worried about the drama it's going to cause.