Feeling a little lost as up until recently it was my hubby who I had these conversations with 🙁
It became known to me about 6 weeks ago that around February time my husband had started telling his female friends that our marriage was over. With one friend she expressed how she was sad to hear this and in literally the next line he told her he was 'in the mood (paraphrasing)' and be asking the girl how she likes her meat... The female friend to her credit ignored his messages and his attempts since to have a conversation so I don't think she was impressed and I have no reason to think anything sexual has actually happened between them as she is happy and with her fella and she cold shouldered him.
I brought it up with him, didn't ask him if it was true, just made it clear I knew exactly what was said and asked him why he said it. He answered with he didn't know and he didn't mean it and it has never been spoken about since. The whole 'confrontation' stage was 2 mins max and my admittedly gentle ways of approaching the subject since has just been ignored.
Problem is I don't trust him now at all, even though I know actual cheating didn't happen. I never in a million years thought he was that type of guy so now I feel like I don't really know him. I am pregnant with our second child (and he knew I was when messaging this girl) so not sure if I am just being overdramatic in my head because of hormones but several times in the last week I have just wanted to pack my bags 🙁 Our marriage has some issues but prior to this I wouldnt have said sefious issues - just usual disagreements/issues that arise 3 years in once the honeymoon phase settles in.