I don't know where to begin. On Saturday we had friends round to stay. It was a great night but after two much drink I confronted my husband once our visitors where in bed about a text he sent to another female that sometimes he will catch up with at events when he travels abroad for work. You see my husband works abroad a lot and can be away for a day, few days a few weeks which I have got used too. One day I looked at his phone and a name came up that I didn't recognise. I don't know why but I looked at the text. The girl told my husband to stop trying to steal her clients. His reply was I am not trying to steal your clients it's just you I am stalking. The problem was I saw this just under a year ago. I don't think for one minute he was cheating on me but I was annoyed at how flirty this text was. I told myself to not be silly and just forget about. I have no idea why I blurted out! Anyway we argued and he was annoyed at me for not mentioning it earlier and saying god if you thought I was having an affair why did you not say anything then. We have had another child since that text. He said I can phone her up and she will confirm nothing is going on. Apparently she is going out with a millionaire according to him. Today is now Tuesday and he has been frosty since Sunday. I tried to speak to him yesterday morning before he went to work and he said he didn't want to talk about it. I said do you want to talk about it tonight. He replied I am so annoyed with you. I then said to him I didn't think he was having an affair but it annoyed me how flirty the text was that he sent. I said I mean you have never mentioned this girl before. I said if the roles were reversed you would be annoyed if I sent that to a male you knew never mind one you didn't know. I don't know what to do as he is acting like he is so angry with me for not saying anything. However, I am angry at him and feel like I've done nothing wrong apart from not saying anything about this at the time. I would appreciate advice please. At the moment I feel physically sick. I just don't know how to deal with this!