I've been with my husband 10 years and we have 3 boys. We have a complicated relationship- we've had issues with DA and SS were involved during my last pregnancy because of this. He has completed a DV perpetrator program (over a year) and is a very different man now although he still has some slightly controlling tendencies on occasion.
I went out with my old work colleagues at the end of my maternity leave to for the leaving do of some colleagues. I met a man who had joined while I was off and we clicked straight away. We have kids the same age and we bonded over the mutual lack of sleep.
Cut a long story short, this man and I started an "emotional affair", Neither of us are willing to upset our families or have a full on affair so we've stopped talking (we'd message every night while putting babies to bed). I've recently returned to work and it's really hard. It physically hurts when I see him and I don't know how to just "get over him". I know part of my attraction to him is based on not being happy in my marriage but I can't get Mr X out of my head!
Help!!!