I'm happily married to my loving oh, we met at 16 and have been together for 13 years, I always seem to have more guy friends than girls friends but a few years ago I distanced myself from my best friend he is that "like a brother" friend who I love with all my heart but not in a romantic way at all, I had to distance myself from him as I wanted him to find a person who could love him the way I love my oh and I wanted him to not love me they way he does, he literally worshipped the ground I walked on, anyway, tonight after two years of limited to no contact we happened upon each other and his eyes lit up like a child at Christmas bounded over to me hugged me and it felt right he told me he had missed me and I said I'd missed him too (I wasn't lying I have missed him!) but I don't want him to want more, it's so hard as I want him in my life and I want to be able to love him as my best mate but I know he will love me more and I don't want to hurt him or "lead him on" any advice?