How close is too close when it comes to same sex friendships? I ask this because
my step sister (of sorts) & my husband have gotten quite close lately.
I considered her to be a good friend to me, my hubby & our kids who love her to bits. I would say my husband has a different relationship with her anyway than I do because they are both smokers & I'm not so they will often stand outside chatting with each other at parties etc & they both have similar outgoing personalities & so have a lot of banter & bounce off each other. I have never had any reason to worry about their friendship though until very recently.
To cut a long story short they have been messaging each other which I wouldn't have been worried about had it not been for the fact that my husband is being secretive about it all. The only reason I can think of as to why he is being so secretive is because there is something more going on. Something that he doesn't want me to know about.
He is certainly being more careful with his phone these days. He would usually leave it lying around or let our daughter use it to send messages to her friend she met on holiday but now he keeps it closely guarded.
So of course I am now absolutely paranoid!