Looking for some advice for my sister
the last 2 years she's had a really tuff time after she split up with her sons dad and then we lost our own dad suddenly not long after! she really has tried her hardest to get through everything the best she can but at the end off last year she became involved with the wrong person and started smoking heroin witch off course has just made her life 10 times worse but thankfully she realised the that and the effect it was having on her life and how easy it got a grip on her and she new she needs to get clean for her sake and her sons sake so they move in with my mum and now she's been off it for 2 months now and is doing brilliant! she really is a brilliant mum she just got her self in a mess but she turned it around befor it was to late! she's always worked to provide for everything she has and bring her son up the best she can! my sisters ex partner (the father off her son) found out about her taking the drugs but new that she was off them but he went to social services saying my sister was still taking it and he was really worried about his son! They came to see my sister and they told her they had no reason to be concerned they could see her son wasn't in any harm and she'd been getting the help she needed witch gave them no reason to come back My sister didn't deny to them about doing drugs she was honest and told them she was seeing a drugs support worker every week and they carry out a a drug test! A few times after my nephew had been at his dads he'd come home and told his nana that his dad keeps asking questions about his mum and saying horrible stuff about her obv course it upsets him and he'd never really want to stay with his dad over nyt only ever spent a few hours with his dad when ever his dad wasn't working! Last week My sister got a phone call from her ex saying he was told buy the same social worked that visited that he was to pick there son up from school and that she told him its best he keeps my him untill my sisters better this of course has came as a surprise after social service telling her a few days befor there was no need for them to be concerned becouse she'd been off them! my sister went to see the social worker and she was told its only for a while that her there son stays at his dads and said its best she doesn't see my nephew just now becouse he will only get upset but said that she could talk to him on the phone when ever she wanted! I can see how much it's hurting her becouse she feels like they have went behind her back after they came to her house! she says she can't understand why ! Yes I could understand them doing this if she was still on the drugs but the fact she's not and now is only allowed to talk to her son on the phone witch he cries and asks her to pick him up saying he doesnt want to stay at his dads house he wants to go home to his own house with her! My sister and my mum went to talk to the social worker only for her to tell them yet again it was only untill she was better(in witch she had been for weeks and this social worked already new this) a few days later when my sister went back down to see the social worker again to be told this time there has been an allegation made against her and that a children's panel would be arranged in a few weeks time but untill then she wasn't allowed any contact! Wer all just really confused after that 1 visit telling her they weren't worried and sounding like they were on her side but then going behind her back and arranging for her son to stay with his dad! they won't tell her what that allegation is that's been made but to me there making it sound like my nephew was in danger somehow! She made a mistake but that doesn't mean my nephew needs to suffer he should be were he wants to be and that's with his mum in his own home any advice please