My partner of 16 years has just lost a friend he has known since uni days and has always maintained that he is a very good friend of his. Due to distance, we moved to europe six years ago, we dont see them often but did attend their daughters wedding a few months back, I booked/paid the accommodation, flights and jumped the hoops getting our daughters out of school so that we could all go as stated on the invite, I have been the one who corresponds albeit I must admit rarely, and I was the one who had to break the news to him about his death. I really like and respect the family and my partner has just told me he wants to go alone to the funeral. I feel really hurt and am now finding it really hard to be supportive towards him because of the resentment I feel. Am i being a drama llama and just swallow the hurt i feel