I have a tendency to be impulsive or over think things so I need advice.
My dad is unexpectedly getting remarried soon. He's always been a present father figuratively but has a quite stilted relationship with my siblings and I. The way he told us of his remarriage is a joke.
Anyways if it was based on my relationship with him I wouldn't get his new wife a thing. But I don't want to tarnish her with the same brush.
I'm going to come into contact with her periodically. I come from quite a small community so I'll bump into her even if it's not with my dad.
She'll be moving in with him and my 3 grownup siblings. Now they are saying don't get anything but my siblings who don't live there are saying do.
I'm not going to give a gift with some of our names and not others. I'm thinking something simple like a small gift set or flowers and chocolates. Nothing flashy. What would you do?