Okay, so I my boyfriend of 2 and a half broke up with me recently. At the time, we had been trying for a baby, because we had both made the decision we were ready, we were living together and in good jobs. Of course, after we broke up I found out I was pregnant, went to him with the news ans he told me he wanted nothing to do with the baby. He has not been interested, and I am now 5 months pregnant. During the breakup, which was quite messy, he told me he had never told his family about us, I just simply assumed he had (they don't live in the same country as us). So now I have a dilemma, he wants nothing to do with his child, his family know nothing about this child coming into the world and I would really like my child to know the other side of their family. Should I get in contact with his sister and inform her of my pregnancy so she can inform the rest of the family ? I just don't want my baby to be secret from their family.