A local acquaintance (who is a really lovely lady) has been seriously ill and I became aware of this today while having a chat with a neighbour. I am not really friends with her or socialize with her, but I do really like her and have enjoyed the chats we have had. Also, she reminds me a lot of my mum and the illness is what my mum had as well. Will it be really odd if I paid her a visit? What am I supposed to take with me? Flowers? Help please. 