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Women bloodied face walking past me in town

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Isabelle111 · 23/06/2016 00:28

This afternoon, in the town, I saw a woman walking towards me and I have sworn that she had a bandage on her nose and scaring on her face but as she came closer I saw that her face was in fact bloodied - really - not red and blotchy but covered in blood - as if she'd just been attacked. Young-ish - walking purposefully - looking anxious.

My instinct was to rush up to her and see what I do to help/ask her if she was OK (clearly, not). Why possessed me not to, I don't know. I hoped someone else would - (quieter part of town but still pretty built up) - I hoped that this was an old injury - by the time I realised that of course I should have acted on my instincts, she'd disappeared from view.

I'm feeling awful - it is so not like me to walk past, as it were. I wouldn't have minded if she'd rebuffed any offer to help - at least I'd have asked. My guess is that, as it was all so graphic, someone did stop for her.

I am wondering now, feeling sick with myself, if I should call the local police in case it's useful info to them.

Any advice very welcome. It was quite shocking. Of course, it all seems rather unlikely - daytime - large town - but I recall it all very clearly.

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GingerIvy · 23/06/2016 00:40

You could report it to the police, and they may be able to follow it up. Might be local CCTV that has her on it, too.

IsItIorAreTheOthersCrazy · 23/06/2016 00:45

I remember discussing a proven theory once that the more people there are around an assault taking place, the less likely it is that someone will help you. I can't remember what it's called, but basically, everyone thinks someone else will do it. Having 1 or 2 bystanders is actually better. It's very very common.

I would speak to police about your concerns and remember your feelings in case anything similar happens in future. Flowers

Isabelle111 · 23/06/2016 00:57

Thank you for responding, especially at this hour! I'll be going to the nearest station to the accident before work tomorrow - I can honestly say that not acting on instinct, until it was too late, is totally out of character for me.

Isltior - an interesting theory - and, yes, I won't forget what I saw in a hurry. Hoping now that this young woman is OK - but I'll inform the police of what I saw. Ginger - yes, I was wondering if there's CCTV. Bound to be - it was all very near a largely shopping precinct.

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Mishmashpotatoes · 06/07/2016 19:14

The Bystander effect! There was a case many years ago in America where a young lady was stabbed to death in her garden as all her neighbors watched on, none of them called the police.

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