Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 years in april. He dumped me 2 years ago a week after i got out of the hospital, 3 months later we started seeing each other and i fell pregnant. He had me stay over his house where his horrible room mate (that never paid rent, didnt clean, slagged me off) stayed and in the end he asked him to move out so i could move in. Atleast once a month from that point on we will have a big fight where he ends up calling me a bitch, lazy, a piece of shit that should have been flushed away long ago (exact words), a psycho. It kicked off on my first mothers day because "the house is a shit tip" when in reality there were a few dishes and a few letters on the dining table. He took my son to his mothers after 2 hours of telling me how shit i am and i spent that time cleaning and wishing i was dead. When he came back it was like nothing had happened. Last night it kicked off again because the past 2 weeks i was in hospital so obviously couldnt clean. But now im out and recovering its no excuse, but there is no rubbish to clean as it was all done mothers day. Then he tells me his dad has said the same but he didnt know his dad came around 2 days ago and said i should ask my boyfriend to help more.