Ex and I are no longer in contact, I have gone no contact as he wanted me to terminate the pregnancy. I've been writing a journal from the baby's perspective. I've: scan pics and little text saying ' today mummy saw me for the first time' ' today mummy felt me moving' etc and I was planning on keeping it in case the ex ever does decide to be involved. My friend suggest it would be nice to send a copy to his parents once baby is born. They are very family orientated and adore their other grandchildren, my friend thinks that once baby is born I should give them the opportunity to know the baby even though the father doesn't want to know. I think it can't hurt to make them a keepsake too justincase and would be no extra bother making copies of the scan pics and stuff. Do you think this is a nice thing to do or just weird.?!
I know of his mum and I don't think she would be happy knowing she had a grand hid she had no contact with so I personally think I could make the book up anyway and if they never see it it's no bother but if they do become involved they can retrospectively follow baby's journey?!
I'm not sure what to do and whether I should even tell them once baby is born???
I know if my brother got someone pregnant and wasn't involved my mum would fight to see her grandchild because it's her family but I'm aware not everyone thinks like this.
So.......WWYD?