My sisters have recently had a big fall out and are not really speaking. In about six weeks I am going to the city where both live, for work. I am there for one night and will be staying with Dsis 1. I feel bad going to the city where they both live and not contacting both of them, however also not sure I can face seeing them together if things are tense. There is not enough time to see both of them separately.
What should I do? I reckon my options are;
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Say I want to see both of them and hope they can come and be civil to one another for my sake (but could be v awkward).
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Say to Dsis1 that I want to see Dsis2 when I first arrive, and let her decide to either come, or alternatively I'll see Dsis 2 on my own and I'll go to Dsis 1's house later. Feel kinda bad as Dsis 2 is hosting me and taking time off work to meet me when I arrive.
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Not say anything to Dsis 2 about coming to their city, and just see Dsis 1.