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is this ok for a funeral?

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littlejolee · 29/05/2015 20:35

A friend of mine died last week and his funeral is on Tuesday. I normally wear lots of bright colours so I am struggling a little bit with what to wear. I have one black dress, but its made of satin. It's knee length and sleeveless and is an a-line cut but it fits very well. Would it be ok with a solid black shawl black tights and black shoes? Or do I need to go and buy/borrow something? Thanks in advance

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Oakmaiden · 29/05/2015 20:36

It isn't really necessary to wear black at a funeral nowadays. And I would feel a little overdressed in satin...

littlejolee · 29/05/2015 20:50

That's kind of what I was thinking, it's a very plain dress otherwise, no patterns or frilly bits or anything, but..it's made of satin. The shawl is cotton though

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Heyho111 · 30/05/2015 14:47

You wouldn't be going as you, as your friend knew you.
Colour is ok at funerals these days. Satin maybe too formal. What about a coloured dress with the black shawl.

littlejolee · 30/05/2015 17:48

That's a nice idea, I have a dark blue one that's quite smart and might do

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SoldierBear · 30/05/2015 17:54

Dark blue would be fine.
Unless the family have specifically asked for bright colours I would always play safe and go for black, dark blue or dark grey. Something subdued. If you would wear something to a formal interview it will probably be fine for a funeral.

littlejolee · 31/05/2015 14:38

Thanks everyone, I think I'll go with the dark blue, it's a skater dress but I'm only 4 ft 10 so it's knee length on me, made of jersey and has sleeves and a little Peter pan collar in cream lace but it's very dark navy blue almost black

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